You'll both get there in time
I on the other hand really want someone to take me out in their ek9, so I can really really hate and destest every part of it and remove the lust I have for one atm. Haha. Its one thing after another with mine atm, only this driveshaft issue I have has really sucked the love out of me for it this month. Lol oh well, that's the pain we go through with these cars at the end of the day, just can't wait to get my louder exhaust back on, fix this issue next month, sort my power steering pump out and give it a good thrashing to re kindle that love again.
But any way, I'm rambling. they will go eventually.